Thursday, October 28, 2010

The Need To Be Who You Are


Do you have people in your life who just dont get you? They just cant understand your need to be you...in order to co-exist successfully with them, they would rather have you dumb it down a bit....you know, dim your light a bit.

Don't settle for such people... who ever likes you should be able to love you the way you are... we all have one life...and its in God's hand. The need to be who you are in this life is all that matters. Don't let anyone rob you of this all in the name of acceptance...

Here is an advise my friend gave me recently:

''...na you sabi were e dey pinch you so y allow 'world people' to control you? What makes you think their views on you will get you to the destination you seek?
Just be you and keep flying! Abi you think success comes to those who don't take risks? who are too dumb? who keep seeking for approval first?? shy, reticent, fearful, timid people wandering 'what will Mena think of me' first thing in the morning, throughout the day and last thing at night? tufiakwa


think am na, The people that TRULY want your progress are few and far between cus they want it for themselves. Ever heard of PHD (pull him/her down?) aka the crab mentality??word!

Please the only person you should look up to is your God and Creator emphasis on 'your' cus it seems people have different gods they are worshiping'
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Imma leave you with this song by Glady's Knight o jare... Have a good weekend


5 comments:

  1. i dunno, nutty, i disagree on this... a little. if a good friend of mine tells me i "look down" on people too much, that'd gimme cause for concern.

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  3. Did someone calling me name? I doesnt likes it when childrens calling my name!

    Na so my dear, like I said previously

    Please dont allow anyone take away your happiness! You are a very honest, intelligent and resourceful woman and while am not a man, these tra...its feature a lot in men's lists of qualities wanted in a woman. (The men will let you know if you are sexy sha)

    Look The person who is 'advicing' you in public is most likely attractred to you in private and dont be shocked if he marries someone just like you!

    I told you about a story abt itk who keeps criticisng u and other outspoken ppl and whose page is full of christian verses, yet he dabbles in porn. He has no idea that a virus is attached to that porn link which updates everyone on his friends list each time he visits!

    Why listen to such an obvious wanker, pervert, hypocrite and confusionist na?

    I for one prefer honesty to anything. stop hiding behind verses! An open, blunt, honest man who is true to himself whether in public or private is more of a husband material than oga wanker pretending to be a rev, up there!

    Besides na you sabi were e dey pinch you so y allow 'world people' to control you? What makes you think their views on you will get you to the destination you seek?

    Just be you and keep flying! Abi you think success comes to those who dont take risks? who are too dumb? who keep seeking for approval first?? shy, reticent, fearful, timid ppl wandering 'what will dorothy think of me' first thing in the morning, throughout the day and last thing at night? tufiakwa

    tink am na, The people that TRULY want your progress are few and far between cus they want it for themselves. Ever heard of phd (pull him/her down?) aka the crab mentality??word!

    Please the only person you should look up to is your God and Creator emphasis on 'your' cus it seems ppl have diff gods they are worshipping.

    Me'mena

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