tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2128395659591300672.post4686565540955353541..comments2023-11-03T01:45:05.467-07:00Comments on Nutty Jay's World.: I'm walking awayNutty J.http://www.blogger.com/profile/13532350273229270590noreply@blogger.comBlogger18125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2128395659591300672.post-30318935607168279502010-09-16T05:46:30.427-07:002010-09-16T05:46:30.427-07:00right choice...i made the same choice in January, ...right choice...i made the same choice in January, it was hard and was miserable for the first half of the year; depressed, disappointed and discouraged. but hey, morning came after night...i found someone that could love me the way i wanted to be loved and ways i never imagined i could be loved and the good thing was that he is someone i could love to...I became glad for Jan 25th..because if i dint make that tough choice, i may have not been free to meet my soul mate so stay strongdoll (retired blogger)https://www.blogger.com/profile/04617294319074603189noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2128395659591300672.post-60964811561173027872010-09-14T09:22:16.329-07:002010-09-14T09:22:16.329-07:00Awesome, simply awesome....
"...I know he wo...Awesome, simply awesome....<br /><br />"...I know he would never need me as much as I need him,.....I know with him I'll always be alone because..." <br /><br />"I'd rather be alone and ALONE...than have a partner and STILL be alone."Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2128395659591300672.post-35209661653282520142010-07-07T03:29:47.989-07:002010-07-07T03:29:47.989-07:00Original M: Thanks girl...and you are right, e no ...Original M: Thanks girl...and you are right, e no easy at all... sometimes Its still not easy. But over the years I have learned to put love in perspective. Sometimes it’s required to act against my heart.<br /><br />And who sleeps soundly at night now? ME. Thats right, I now sleep well again.Nutty J.https://www.blogger.com/profile/13532350273229270590noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2128395659591300672.post-23053633759363068462010-07-06T11:57:04.311-07:002010-07-06T11:57:04.311-07:00Round of applause! I definitely give you mad props...Round of applause! I definitely give you mad props for being brave enough to walk away, I know that it couldn't have been easy...AT ALL. But ultimately, you made what you felt was the right choice for you and I hail you.Original Mgbekehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11409561613382179987noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2128395659591300672.post-30548943056391785592010-07-01T14:08:04.207-07:002010-07-01T14:08:04.207-07:00I finally finished the paul and I saga
somepeople...I finally finished the paul and I saga <br />somepeoplehaverealproblems-vanity.blogspot.comVanityhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18248520703568351298noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2128395659591300672.post-16984694990610455752010-06-30T07:10:15.497-07:002010-06-30T07:10:15.497-07:00I just read this and first a hug to you.
Kudos to...I just read this and first a hug to you.<br /><br />Kudos to you for not just saying but taking action because contrary to all the female empowerment chants it is not easy to walk away from someone but you did. You put yourself first and faced reality and did what was best for you at this point. I hope everyting works out and thank you for sharing this was so succinctly.<br /><br />TaynementAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2128395659591300672.post-1694257003572191672010-06-30T03:33:25.492-07:002010-06-30T03:33:25.492-07:00Mwajim & 9jaPhoenix: Thank you very much.
Rea...Mwajim & 9jaPhoenix: Thank you very much.<br /><br />Really appreciate thisNutty J.https://www.blogger.com/profile/13532350273229270590noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2128395659591300672.post-82661127860013242232010-06-29T23:34:28.499-07:002010-06-29T23:34:28.499-07:00Wow. I am deeply impressed by your bravery. I real...Wow. I am deeply impressed by your bravery. I really am. You deserve ten thumbs up and a group hug for this. I just wish more women would be smart and strong enough to think and choose like you have.<br /><br />Take care, dear<br /><br />You will be better in time<br /><br />(((hug)))9jaPhoenixhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15310626128873278670noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2128395659591300672.post-89039527012813637372010-06-29T13:06:59.805-07:002010-06-29T13:06:59.805-07:00:(
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I know wi...:( <br />:(<br />:(<br /><br />Let God heal you okay dear :)<br />I know with time, despite the hurt, you'll be brand new... :)Mwajim Alhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09144148003491425276noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2128395659591300672.post-18535231616339282162010-06-29T07:10:11.799-07:002010-06-29T07:10:11.799-07:00Mena: Thanks for stopping by. I understand about w...Mena: Thanks for stopping by. I understand about working it out...and working hard to make it work. And I can assure you that I did exactly that. But by default the guy is just not emotionally available and THAT is for him to work on. How can he work on that if he hasnt admitted it to himself first...my girl na long thing.<br /><br />Besides his mum is still casting and binding the Delta girl (me) from his life and the prayers of a righteous woman avails much abi... eh en.<br /><br />I no know watin warri do people ooooo....lol<br /><br />what is wrong with coming from warri? Mena blog about itNutty J.https://www.blogger.com/profile/13532350273229270590noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2128395659591300672.post-39545293649177987262010-06-29T06:57:15.538-07:002010-06-29T06:57:15.538-07:00This comment has been removed by the author.Nutty J.https://www.blogger.com/profile/13532350273229270590noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2128395659591300672.post-76443347836168524392010-06-29T03:30:00.274-07:002010-06-29T03:30:00.274-07:00Babe, I have a dichotomoy in the type of comments ...Babe, I have a dichotomoy in the type of comments I want to make, one as a friend, the other as a sis. :<br /><br />This is what I have to say to you..as a friend now (Read: no sentiments). Relationships are very hard to understand, but they do need some ingredients in order to work out, one of which is time. But breaking up with someone is not a guarantee that the next person wont do same thing at some point. <br />Think of any great relationship, there are people that are working to make it look so great. I bet if Jada Smith opens her mouth to say how life with Will Smith is ehn, you go bow, or what of Mrs Obama, only the wife of busiest and most popular man in the western world. A man that everybody wants a piece of of, even at that they take time out so they can sort out differences outside the glare of the cameras.<br /><br />I am saying we should list the pros and cons and weigh against each other before making that big decision.<br /><br />What I will say as a pseudosister: Whatever your decision is, I am on your side. Besides if this is the person whose mum disliked you on your sight..I am on your side armed with my AK47 incase someone wants to start sumthing up all in your space. :)<br />xxMena UkodoisReadyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08395537925341263961noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2128395659591300672.post-44123954549533706522010-06-28T23:45:59.261-07:002010-06-28T23:45:59.261-07:00Vanity thank you... I've run far oh...and even...Vanity thank you... I've run far oh...and even if his brother comes wrapped in gucci and there is a 'good man' star on his forehead...I will not think about it...hahahaha<br /><br />Put up a post to let us know whats up with paul* and his bro...I cant waitNutty J.https://www.blogger.com/profile/13532350273229270590noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2128395659591300672.post-64770060652153317742010-06-28T23:32:23.526-07:002010-06-28T23:32:23.526-07:00omg. my last relationship with * Paul went the exa...omg. my last relationship with * Paul went the exact same way. Except unlike you by the time i left i was almost a shadow of myself. It sucked so much. I totally know how u feel but maybe like me you'll meet his brother who'll make it all better *wink*<br /><br />" One day he will find that girl and do all the right things with her, he would pay her all the attention she needs, he would put her first, he would include her in his decision making, she will be one of his top priorities, he would listen to even her unspoken words and he would show her he loves her everyway he can...he would be honest with her...he wouldnt switch off his phones on weekends and public holidays, he would want to spend time with her even if he doesnt have the time, he would make out time...he would be concerned when she says she is ill, with her he would be able to acknowledge when he is wrong and apologize without being asked to...he wouldnt make her feel she is being oversensitive when she calls him to his errors"Vanityhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18248520703568351298noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2128395659591300672.post-12902732822706656552010-06-28T14:20:23.751-07:002010-06-28T14:20:23.751-07:00Thank you 2cute2...and you can bet on it that I...Thank you 2cute2...and you can bet on it that I'll send in my questions when I get confused.<br /><br />Thanks dearNutty J.https://www.blogger.com/profile/13532350273229270590noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2128395659591300672.post-83734694118136849142010-06-28T14:02:56.179-07:002010-06-28T14:02:56.179-07:00I hate when someone goes through this.. I really d...I hate when someone goes through this.. I really do.. Cause the pain is something I wouldn't even wish for someone I don't care about not to talk of someone I do.. <br />I'm sure you've thought it over.. <br />I'm impressed with your strength..<br />I'm impressed the the mature reasons you gave.. <br />I'm here, whatever you need dear.. <br />Take careAnonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10301603117549184097noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2128395659591300672.post-69282626199300913172010-06-28T06:53:16.028-07:002010-06-28T06:53:16.028-07:00Thanks dear...better it came to this now than late...Thanks dear...better it came to this now than later.<br /><br />(((huggsss))) right back at you with equal strength.Nutty J.https://www.blogger.com/profile/13532350273229270590noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2128395659591300672.post-75151030833386976582010-06-28T06:38:23.006-07:002010-06-28T06:38:23.006-07:00(((((huuuugggggsssss))) darling, i'm so sorry ...(((((huuuugggggsssss))) darling, i'm so sorry that it had to come to this, really prayed you guys will find a way to fix it. but you made the best and the right decision for you and thats all that matters. In time you will find that exactly that your heart desires. It is well. xxxxxNee Fe Mihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00770543533340729142noreply@blogger.com